And Now I Present To You: NSLL – Nicholas Sparks Love Lie (Pronounced “nissle”, like ‘missle’ with n). The NSLL is the idea about love that betas, deltas and gammas cling to blindly. If you subjugate to her feminine power and give love notes, flowers, candies constantly, she falls head over heels. This delusion chains weak men forever in fantasy land. Betas buy the scam hook, line, sinker.